We all need to feel loved and safe in our relationships. If you’re being gaslighted, then you’re never, ever, going to feel loved or safe.
Listen to me, because this is important! You need to understand exactly what I mean by “gaslighting”and how it can affect you. And if it’s really happening in your marriage, you can end up being beaten down and desperately unhappy. You have to change something, now!
Seriously, you need to know about this.
Jim Kennedy, Marriage Coach
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“After many years of working with unhappy couples, I realized that with at least 50% of the couples I work with, the damage done in their relationships was a result of one of the partners gaslighting their spouse. Gaslighting, is a power play that over time, gives one partner control over the other.
The methods used by gaslighters are manipulative and often leave the victim finally questioning their own sanity and often robbed of any joy in their life. Make no mistake, this is emotional (and sometimes physical) abuse. And it’s bullying at its worst.
Years of experience have shown me just how destructive gaslighting is; not only in romantic relationships and marriages but also in families, in toxic friendships and often in the workplace. If this is part of your story, you need to face up to it, acknowledge it and deal with it. Start today.”
- Jim Kennedy
“Life is simple. If you’re happy, keep going. If you’re not happy, change something” Unknown
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All couples go through crises.
It’s not unusual. In fact it’s normal and healthy to have some conflict in a marriage. That’s how we learn what’s important to our partners as well as what behavior is acceptable to each other. And sometimes it’s even a good way of solving our disputes.
Personally, I don’t believe it’s the fights that matter, what’s important is how quickly we make up afterwards.