We all need to feel loved and safe in our relationships. If you’re being gaslighted, then you’re never, ever, going to feel loved or safe.
Listen to me, because this is important! You need to understand exactly what I mean by “gaslighting”and how it can affect you. And if it’s really happening in your marriage, you can end up being beaten down and desperately unhappy. You have to change something, now!
Seriously, you need to know about this.
Jim Kennedy, Marriage Coach
Contact me at +971 508 435 300 or email me: james@cbtabudhabi.ae
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“After many years of working with
unhappy couples, I
realized that
with at least 50% of
the couples I
work with, the
damage done
in
their relationships was a
result
of one of
the
partners
gaslighting
their spouse.
Gaslighting,
is a power play that
over time,
gives
one partner
control over
the other.
The
methods used by gaslighters
are
manipulative and often leave
the
victim
finally questioning their
own
sanity and often robbed of
any joy
in
their life. Make no
mistake, this is emotional (and
sometimes physical) abuse. And
it’s bullying at its worst.
Years of experience have shown
me just
how destructive gaslighting
is; not only in romantic
relationships and marriages but
also in
families, in
toxic friendships
and
often in the
workplace. If this
is part of your story, you
need to
face up
to it, acknowledge it and
deal with it. Start t
oday.”
- Jim Kennedy
“Life is simple. If you’re happy, keep going. If you’re not happy, change something” Unknown
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All couples go through crises.
It’s not unusual. In fact it’s normal and healthy to have some conflict in a marriage. That’s how we learn what’s important to our partners as well as what behavior is acceptable to each other. And sometimes it’s even a good way of solving our disputes.
Personally, I don’t believe it’s the fights that matter, what’s important is how quickly we make up afterwards.